Attached To The Ex's Family. Urban Therapy with Sun #253

What happens when you and your children are still good with the family of your ex? What happens when your ex's family liked you a lot even if y'all weren't married and might not have had any kids together? 

Is it disrespectful to show up around the holidays?

What would you do if your ex showed up to your family functions because they are still friends with your momma, sisters or kids?

How should the new love interest of your ex feel if you keep showing up where they are? Should it matter to them?

If you're still attached to the family of your ex, does it mean that you are still attached to your ex in some way?

Should you cut off all contact with your ex and his/her family after y'all are done? Just cut it all off?

Is there any way that this situation can be okay?