Can This Marriage Be Saved? How To Cope With Baby Mama Drama

Steve and Phyllis had been together off and on for two years, then Phyllis got pregnant with their twin boys, and another five years passed before Steve finally decided to get married and officially make them a family. The problem was, during that five year period before he married Phyllis, Steve was also seeing another woman, Donna, who became pregnant with another son. Her son is two years younger than Phyllis’ twin boys. Steve wants to raise his sons together but the women hate each other.  Phyllis says that she is fed up with Donna interfering in her marriage, demanding Steve’s time. The only thing Steve owes her is a child support check, and he pays that, so Donna should leave him alone, Phyllis feels. She is not his wife, I am!” Phyllis says. Recently, Donna moved to another city, and to Phyllis’ dismay, Steve is planning to go visit her so he can see his son. Phyllis is so angry she is threatening divorce. She is sure her husband is still intimately involved with Donna. Can this marriage be saved?