Predator/Prey, Master/Servant: Does The Male/Female Relationship Need Reconstruction?

This war between the sexes has to end. Of all the species of animals on the planet, only the Tasmanian Devil, a furry little creature with sharp fangs that appears to violently attack his mate before having sex, displays more hostility toward the oppposite sex than the human species. As we strive to create a marriage contract that couples can use as a guide for peaceful,harmonious cohabitation, we keep coming across that same stumbling block, that everybody sees clearly but nobody wants to talk about. The relationship between men and women is based on a lie. Before we can construct a healthy Male/Female Relationship, the foundation upon which to build a family, we must deconstruct the lie that the current relationship is based upon. All living creatures have a sex drive. When their testosterone levels are high, men become aggressive and are driven to want to satisfy sexual urges. In this state, they can easily approach a woman with a predatory intention, seeking to seduce her without the desire for a permanent bond or to father a child. Many societies and cultures around the world have placed the responsibility for this behavior on the woman - she should always be under the protection of an older, stronger male, or she should carry herself in such a way so that she does not end up being treated as prey, and if she finds herself violently attacked and sexually assaulted, it is because the man was overly aroused by her beauty, which she should hide. In order to control the woman’s sex drive, men have done everything from breaking her feet so she can’t walk to cutting off the sensitive part of her genitals so she can’t feel.What about rather than trying to control someone else, we all, men and women, agree that we are 100% responsible for our own behavior