Couples Who Argue: Are We Really Listening To Each Other?

We tend to argue most with the ones we love. A good Intimimate relationship requires deep and honest conversations, but are we really listening to what each other is saying? Or are we just impatiently waiting for our turn to speak so we can make our point? Why do husbands and wives argue so much? Do men and women actually communicate differently? How do we learn to really listen and understand what the other one is saying?