Starting Over After A Divorce: Learning How To Love Again

Divorce can be emotionally devastating to ones self esteem and can also distroy ones sense of trust. But just because a marriage doesn't last "for as long as you both shall live" doesn't mean you or the ex-spouse is a bad person. Sometimes you grow apart, sometimes you mature at different rates, sometimes whatever brought you together - a career interest, children, a religion - is no longer something you have in common.  So, the marriage is over, you're hurting. How do you get past the hurt and start over again? How do you move forward with your life and meet another companion - and avoid bringing your old baggage with you? How do you learn how to love again?