Who's Fault Is It, The Black Man Or The Black Woman? Urban Therapy with Sun #232

The media would have you believe that most Black men are either in jail, or are doing something that will put them in jail. Is that true? They would have you believe that most Black men abandon their responsibilities, are deadbeat dads, don't wanna do nothing but sell drugs, play sports, become rappers, screw every woman in sight and are most of the time, up to no good in some way. 
Many of our own people believe that this is true also.
The media would have you believe that Black women are a bunch of loud talking, baby-making, Welfare receiving, Food Stamp spending, weave wearing chicks who don't know how to raise their own children. 
Many our own people seem to believe that too.
Are these things and more just sterotypes? Is their some validity to these claims?
Black Men & Women often directly blame each other for the condition that they're in. We blame each other for ruining the next generation. 
Which one is right? Are either of them right? Is there something else?