Really Really Getting To Know Someone. Urban Therapy with Sun #228

How long does it take to really get to know someone? To really really get to know someone? Could it be a year, 5 years, a lifetime? It seems like either it doesn't matter to some people how long it takes to get to know someone, or that some people have abandoned the importance of getting to know someone altogether.

Do you feel like you really need to get to know someone well before you can seriously proceed forward with them?

Do you need to know someone really well before you:

Let them move in with you?

Get married

Lend them money

Have unprotected sex with them

Introduce them to your children or family

Tell them about your past

Reveal you true feelings

Tell them your secrets

We know that people reveal these things to people without knowing them very well at all. Some people say that life is too short to be waiting too long to get to know someone and that you have to take a chance.

Some people say thatyou never really know someone no matter what.

What do you say?