Hating What You See In The Mirror. Urban Therapy with Sun #214

Our people (Black Folks) have been know to have a lot of self-hate. It supposed to explain why we alter our appearance, why we hurt each other, why we mistreat each other, why we separate from each other, why we create divisions among ourselves, why we kill each other, why we won't support each other, why we won't unite with one another consistently, why we don't trust each other, why we consider ourselves to be inferior, why we don't have a lot of good things to say about each other, why we end up in jail, why we can't advance in the world, why we can't...........the list just goes on and on and on.

Is it real? Is it really like that? Is it just a sterotype? Is it a myth? Is it just propaganda? Is it just a way to keep us from believing in ourselves? Is it all just a big misunderstanding?

Let's take a good look at this and put some things to rest.

Do Black women wear weaves because they don't love themselves?

Do Black men seek love with white women because they think that it raises their status? Are white women an alternative to Black women for Black men? Is it their self-hate that makes them see it that way?

We have a lot to cover and we're gonna get get straight to it.