Married To A Bum. Stuck With User. Urban Therapy with Sun #198

This is the most terrible of situations to be in and it can happen to anybody. You don't even have to be married to be in this situation. Most people don't start out being a bum, or seeming like a gold digger, but some do. Sometimes we think that people will change if they get a taste of the good life. Do they ever change though? Do they do it for us? Do they ever turn it around? For us, no. For someone else in their lifetime, maybe. Not today though and today is probably when you need them to, if not yesterday.

What is a bum though? Is a bum someone who won't work, or is it someone who cant or won't provide? Are they lazy? Are they unmotivated? Have they been too spoiled and just can't be responsible? What constitutes a bum in your eyes?

What about a user or gold digger? What makes someone a user or a gold digger?DOes it always involve money strictly? If that's the case, wouldn't or shouldn't it be easy to detect and escape early? How far does a user/gold digger get in before we are able to track jis/her sactions and deal with them accordingly?

What's the collateral damage of all of this? What's the recovery rate? Is money the only thing to be lost in all of this?

Come through and holla at this show because it's gonna be fire!