Changing Them Without Admission. Urban Therapy with Sun #197

We know that we're not supposed to try to change anyone. We know that. Has it stopped anyone from trying to change someone yet? Can we help it? Speaking of help, if you help someone, does that mean that you're trying to change them? What's the endgame with help? Doesn't assistance equal change?

What's up wit cahnge anyway? Why do people make it sound so defeating to try to change someone? Is it really that bad? What if the person wants to change? 

Is it that we can't actually change someone, or is it that we just can't say it? 

It's a funny thing, because on one hand, we say that people can change no matter what they do, or how old they are and how long that they've been doing something. On the other hand, we say that you can't teach an old dog new tricks. Or we say that people only change when they want to change. Is that always true? 

A lot of people just try to change people without ever saying anything about it. Are they wrong for that? Will there ever be anything that anyone can do to stop someone from trying to change, upgrade, improve, adjust, update, retool, makeover, or push someone forward?