For Mine And Nobody Else. Urban Therapy with Sun #180

Unfortunately child support is an issue that a lot of people, mostly men have to deal with. While many men pay their child support without any problem, many men resist paying and when they pay, or are forced to pay, they try to control how the money that they have paid will be spent. They wan t the money that they have paid to go directly towards the needs of their children and no one else. That sounds reasonable to an extent. The reason that child support is an issue in the 1st place is because you have children that need to be provided for. 

There are many problems that can crop up when it comes to child support.

1. Men who want to pay the money directly to the child and not the mother.

2. When it's not understood that the support money goes towards house bills or whatever the custodial parent expenses may be.

3. Other siblings that aren't yours may benefit from your support.

4. The one that pays child support cannot control how the money gets spent.

5. The custodial parent controls the way the child support money is spent and only her. We have to trust her and hope that she is responsible.



There are a lot of factors that concern the issue of child support and we will get into all of them, or at least a whole lot.