Unsafe Sex. Urban Therapy with Sun #173

We know that we have to be careful when it comes to our sexual behavior. Nobody wants to catch diseases or have an unwanted pregnancy. What about the things centered around sex that have nothing to do those things? Can you protect yourself with condoms, pills and other forms of birth control and still feel unsafe? Maybe?

Let's break this down a little bit.

Here are some situations involving sex that may not be safe regardless of whether you use protection or not.

Having sex with someone who is married or seriously involved with someone else.

Having sex with your own spouse or S/O who you may be on the outs with.

Having sex with an ex.

Having sex with someone who may be mentally or emotionally unstable.

Having sex with people that you don't know very well.

Having sex with people who have been known to make trouble for other people.

Having sex with people who may have recently come home from war.

Having sex with people who are prone to violence.

Having sex in group sex scenarios.

Having revenge sex.

Having sex with snitches.

Having sex withrelatives of friends or non-blood family members.

Having sex with prostitutes.

Having sex while under the influence of drugs or alcohol.

Having sex in public.

There are plenty of other scenarios that may be dangerous even though you may be using contraception.

While having dangerous sex may really turn some people on, because some people seem to just live for that sort of thing, other people may have a hard time performing in sexual situations where they feel uncomfortable. It can ruin everything when it's really bad. 

You may have been having unsafe sex for years and may not have been aware of it. Maybe now you can do something about it.

Tune in on Wednesday and find out how.