Urban Therapy with Sun #119 Can't Get Hard For Them. Can't Get Wet For Them

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This show is about when you are involved in a relationship with someone that you have lost your sexual attraction to. Sounds extreme but it definitely happens often with people that are supposed to love each other. Interestingly enough is that it may not be the situation where a person might not love someone but rather they may be so angry at them that the very thought of them may just fill their hearts with disgust and ruin their libido.
Often this happens when a person has been cheated on by someone. Many people have said that picturing the one that they love having sex with someone else makes them feel physically ill. It certainly doesn't make them wanna feel like doing it.
Sometimes the reason is physical. sadly some people gain or lose weight and become unattractive to their boyfriend or girlfriend. This probably happens more with men than with women but it happens nonetheless. Yes it may be shallow but it does exist and it is something that has to be dealt with.

Have you ever lost your physical attraction to someone that used to really turn you on? How did you fix it or was it fixable?

If you can't get hard or wet for someone during sex, is it always physical? Is it always mental?

Can counseling help?

Can anything help?

Would this kill a relationship? A marriage? Would it make someone cheat