The Solar System!! (S.A.S.) Forgiving yourself

There comes a time when you just have to let go of the pain of what you've done and accept that being sorrowful is enough.

How many of us have beaten ourselves up about something we have done only to create a worse situation through our guilt.

Ex. : You've gone through a divorce and there are kids involved in the marriage. The kids blame you for the breakup because they don't understand adult problems being they are young and they have more access to you.

You shower the children with gifts and allow them to act undisciplined because you harbor some self guilt. The truth is that you feel that you could have done more to save your marriage.