I love you, but I can't talk to you anymore.

Often there are times in our lives when we fall in love with someone and feel like they may be our soulmate. Funny how time goes by and the more we get to know each other, the less we are able to talk to each other. Why is this? Is it that we only are honest and expressive with each other when we first meet? Some people hide most of their insecurities and imperfections early in a relationship until they can no longer. Why can't we say how we think and feel with some of our lovers, partners friends, family, or whoever. Does every conversation have to be a confrontation? Do people take a big sigh when you tell them you want to talk? Do you sigh when someone tells you they want to talk? Is it always the same old thing? Does this matter to you? Should it? Could it? Why do black people deny that they listened to a lot of 80's pop music when they were younger? Why?...Just seeing if y'all even read this stuff