What Are You Saying To Achieve ONENESS In Your Marriage?

Do you develop communicatio strategies with tell or ask  strategies? Many of us operate with tell assertive perspectives while many of us use or desire to use ask assertive communication to achieve success in our relationships. Tell assertive personalities are not designed to cause harm and in most cases are designed to offer solutions to a host of problems. Ask assertive personalities operate with the skills associated with investigative reporter. As believers which one works best on the path to ONENESS?