Are Men Raised To Be Likable?

Hey gang. 
It's interesting seeing men in my comments after making post about their heroes, Joe Rogan and Jordan Peterson. 
They seem to have a tough time simply interacting with women without angrily spouting their favorite talking points. 

I don't know what they think they'll get out of being unlikable and maladaptive but they seem to have really brought into the idea that being recalcitrant and standoffish is an attuted that will win friends and build relationships.