Gumbo Talk: Is having a man in my plan?

After having a conversation with a peer recently we agreed that everyone could have somebody, but is who we desire in our lives who we'll wind up with or will we settle for less. The question then became: do women need a man in there life? There are several answers to this age old question. We hope to restart the conversation. I believe you can have who you desire if you positon yourself in a manner that you exclude those who have not met your expectation and then learn the vibe of those you want in your life. Connecting on a spiritual or vibin on a resonance that you both can communicate on will lend to the essence of a late in life love connection. I would like to discuss what you think and what I have talked about and learned on this topic of: Is having a man in my plan? As usual the show will be recorded live on FB @gumbotalk and will be available both on Blog Talk Radio and Facebook in the archives after the live recording.